Medea Chechik is a:

• Transformational Psychotherapist
• Relationship Coach & Trainer
• Hypnotherapist
• Authentic Communication Facilitator

Recently a FLOW panelist at the Harlem Book Fair in New York City and will be a guest on Heart of the Matter The FLOW's internet radio relationship magazine www.blogtalkradio.com/The-FLOW which debuts Sunday, September 6th at 6pm. In this posting Medea describes the transformational power of relationships whether we label them good or bad. David Schnarch in his book Passionate Marriage states "that revolutionizing your... [relationship]...isn't as simple as learning new techniques, improving your communications skills, or rescheduling your time priorities. It involves growing." Authentic Relationships are growing relationships.

The FLOW invites you to share your comments here regarding Medea's piece, or on her website http://selftransformation.ca/. You may also send an email to flow4theworld@verizon.net.

Relationships are unique experiences, no two relationships are the same, nor should they be. The histories, baggage, hopes, dreams and fears that two individuals bring not only influence their relationship dynamics but determine who they become in the process. Though there is no one blueprint for relationship success, successful relationships all possess the same qualities that make for satisfying, self-affirming unions.

Robert T. Gardner Jr. is the author of The Choices We Make, a book about how our choices can foster or impede healthy loving. Mr. Gardner will also be on The FLOW panel Conscious Loving: Making Healthy Relationship Choices at the Harlem Book Fair in Freeport, Long Island on September 19, 2009 at 2:30 PM. The Ten Commandments for Good Relationships below are from Mr. Gardner’s book. Can these commandments work for you in your relationship? Join the discussion; share your comments with The FLOW family or send an email to flow4theworld@verizon.net.