Show Me Where It Hurts!
Is there an unbearable tension, between the needs of men, and the role they play in society? Are we asking men to do the impossible? Are men secretly in pain given the tension between their true needs and the mechanical path, society has paved? Are the old roles in service? Were they ever? How does this translate into their relationships?
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Carol: I feel your pain. I was married to an alcoholic for 26 years. The first thing you should do is THANK HIM and the woman he left you for. Second, seek professional counseling. The effects of drug addiction and alcoholism on families are devastating. Work to understand all of the complexities of the relationship. Also, you must take responsibility for the role you played in the relationship. You have a personal journey to take. For me this was an even more painful process than ending the marriage but necessary to become whole again. Be patient and take time to understand and truly love yourself. The journey to a life full of joy and love can be difficult. Remember, you are never alone, and have faith. Again, seek professional counseling.