March 2007 Archives
Is there an unbearable tension, between the needs of men, and the role they play in society? Are we asking men to do the impossible? Are men secretly in pain given the tension between their true needs and the mechanical path, society has paved? Are the old roles in service? Were they ever? How does this translate into their relationships?
What's your thinking.....
Welcome Kean & William Paterson University Students
Do you get what you seek in your relationships? Do you take responsbility for your realtionship outcomes? Do you see any patterns in those outcomes? Are you really suited to be in a relationship? Is making relationships work just about feeling good or good about yourself? Do you confuse attachment for love? Is your relationship more important than YOU are? These are just a few ideas to think about. The FLOW wants you to post your questions and comments regarding relationships for discussion in class. We look forward to the upcoming dialogue.

Choosing a Partner!
Is it Love or a Booty Call?
March 17, 2007 4:00 p.m.
at the
Hue-Man Book Store
2319 Frederick Douglas Blvd (Between 124th and 125th St.)
Harlem, New York 10027
212-665-7400
With Spoken Word Artist Myla!
Celebrity Panel Includes:
FLO ANTHONY, Gossip columinst and publisher
CHARLAMAGNE, Wendy Williams' side kick
LISA DURDEN, TV Host and Producer
SUMUMBA SOBWKE, Author of Dating Games, A Brother Speaks Up
ADRIENNE MOULTRIEZ, noted playwright and director, (Love, Greed and the Pursuit of Happiness)
Is a successful relationship gauged in number of years, good sex, committment, financial security, does my partner make me feel good about myself, being married with children or a feeling of completness? I believe that success should be defined as individuals and as a couple. Can our definitions of success clash? Are they realistic? Do we even discuss with our partners what success means? In a recent panel discussion on relationship skills conducted by The FLOW, we kept coming back to the question how do we define success. Have we been sucessful in achieving the success we seek? The FLOW wants to know how you feel.



