To Be Married Means to Be Outnumbered
To Be Married Means to Be Outnumbered
By SAM ROBERTS
The New York Times
Married couples comprised just under 50 percent of the nation's households in 2005, the first time such couples made up a minority.
Married couples, whose numbers have been declining for decades as a proportion of American households, have finally slipped into a minority, according to an analysis of new census figures by The New York Times.
The American Community Survey, released this month by the Census Bureau, found that 49.7 percent, or 55.2 million, of the nation’s 111.1 million households in 2005 were made up of married couples — with and without children — just shy of a majority and down from more than 52 percent five years earlier.
The numbers by no means suggests marriage is dead or necessarily that a tipping point has been reached. The total number of married couples is higher than ever, and most Americans eventually marry. But marriage has been facing more competition. A growing number of adults are spending more of their lives single or living unmarried with partners, and the potential social and economic implications are profound.
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It just changes the social weight of marriage in the economy, in the work force, in sales of homes and rentals, and who manufacturers advertise to,” said Stephanie Coontz, director of public education for the Council on Contemporary Families, a nonprofit research group. “It certainly challenges the way we set up our work policies.”
While the number of single young adults and elderly widows are both growing, Professor Coontz said, “we have an anachronistic view as to what extent you can use marriage to organize the distribution and redistribution of benefits.”
Couples decide to live together for many reasons, but real estate can be as compelling as romance.
“Owning three toothbrushes and finding that they are always at the wrong house when you are getting ready to go to bed wears on you,” said Amanda Hawn, a 28-year-old writer who set up housekeeping near San Francisco with her boyfriend, Nate Larsen, a real estate analyst, after shuttling between his apartment and one she shared with a friend. “Moving in together has simplified life,” Ms. Hawn said.
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I think its great that you try to answer the many questions people have about relationships and offer them some wisdom!
As you note, the instituion of marriage is far from being endangered, I have been married for 25 years, there have been ups and downs. I love my wife more today than when we made our vows, and wouldn't trade in any of the ups or the downs!
I have been married for just over a year and I think that the fact that married people are outnumbered is a postive thing. Marriage is very sacred and if people choose not to get married for "economic reasons" then maybe they shouldn't be married. So many people rush into relationships and marriage without truly knowing the other person, maybe the "econimic" excuse is not so bad.