The Many Faces of Ego
In service of the egoic self, we may very often find ourselves contributing through self delusion, adulation, declarations, etc.,to induce a sense of importance and superiority.
The ego out of control demands recongition. In our pursuit of spiritual growth,we may renounce certains behaviors, attitudes, ideologies etc.,in an attempt to depart from our egoic selves, and sometimes in that act, we develop larger egos, supported by a sense of superiority, because of the higher than thou path we delude ourselves into taking.
No matter what form it takes, the ego is pathlogical. Whenever there's a feeling of inferiorty or superiority, that's the ego damanding attention, and it's role in relationships, will invariable affect the quality of our spirituallity, truth(self/others),through our connections with each other.
So in pursuit of a mate, observing the role of their egosin their livesand how they go about servicing it, can be an all important obsrevation,further assisting you in making better choices facilitating your spiritual asscent.
Are they aware of the many faces of how their egos play out in the relationship? Do they even seek a path of understanding? Are you in direct/indirect services of their egos?
This optical illusion of conciousness is something we all should be aware of, either with ourselves and others, and understand that our realities, becomes a reflection of our illusions.
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This, I believe, refers to all the reasons people enter into relationships that have nothing to do with the other person, to be happy, because they are lonely, to have children, etc. This is the ego seeking things outside of itself for validation. the Flow advocates "we are complete within oursleves." In our relationships, we need to be clear on who is talking, our selfish desires or that real you!
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Every ego is a master of selective perception and distorted interpretation to the service of the individual.
Tha baggage of old thoughts and emotions, becomes a filter through which our experiences are filtered through.
Making oneself right and others wrong, is a mental dyfunction, that perpetuate separartion and conflict between people.
Some people are addicted to anger and upset, as othrrs are to drugs.