How Sexually Open Are You?
Can/do you and your partner openly discuss your sexual likes and dislikes? Can your partner tell you "baby you're not hitting it?" Do you respond with "show me where it's at" or is your ego crushed and you emotionally withdraw? Can you talk to your partner about using sex toys? Would your male ego be crushed if your partner told you she used a vibrator and enjoyed it? Have you and your partner ever masturbated together or helped each other masturbate? Can you even comfortably talk about it? Oral sex--can you talk about it? Anal sex--can you talk about it, whithout your partner condeming you to hell!?
Don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating any particular sexual behavior. What I am advocating is the necessity of two individuals in a relationship communicating openly, without malice, regarding what they want and don't want. Open communication is the prelude to real intimacy. And real intimacy is more than physical. So, if you ain't doing it here, chances are you ain't doing it in other areas as well! In other words, it's not uncommon for the lack of communication regarding sex to be the tip of the iceberg regarding other unresolved issues in the relationship. What's you opinion? The FLOW WANTS TO KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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how sexually open are you..
this is a very good topic to have on a three day getaway weekend on the top of some mountian in new york...all couple and singles are ..invited...Jacuzzi
and whirlpool available....at .....your dispost...
topic of discussion of how sexually open are you... with special guests speaker... of cause...i am just kidding. it's just an idea..for fun...
many folks can benefit from a weekend as this...but let us benefit from this topic as well..you can
share your view...so that we can all learn and enjoy..
i hope we can be open minded enough , to want to know how to really satisfy your partner in the bedroom... before the bomb explodes...
this is a very interesting topic and as you see not too many responses...
perhaps, some couple may be too shy and\or too afrain , to talk openingly and sincerely about this topic...
maybe some folks don't want to known what to do sexually in order to grafying your mate desires..or are there some folk who are interested enough to want to learn how to please your mate sexually..are you ready to explore the possiblities of new sex acts in the bedroom.....
let us open up with how sensitive are you with your spouses needs,, are your finger nails smooth and trim are you grown well...can you tell your partner to show you where it feel sexually good to touch and are you openly enough say do it here and do it there...
can you please your woman with your fingers, your tongue, your vibrator and your penis..
....most people or couple are to shy to talk about this subject...
.sso maybe a getaway endend it a beeter idea to discuss this kind of talking and this kind of sharing..
many folks need alot of help with this sitution..of sexual pleasing your mate..giving pleasure in the bedroom..
by the way, i just started dating after ten years of being divorce and i love it.. but some man are not ready to settle down with just one lady..and try to learn how to please her..
..however when i do have a sexuaul relationship it is very important to me to be sexually satisfy and sexually grafify ... sometime penis size it very important to me but using his tongue and his fingers is very pleasurable too..and well apprecated..
i think that every part of the body has some kind of sexual pleasure awaiting to be sexually gratify...but you must take out the time to explore your partners' body..in order to be in tone with..it...
nevertheless, couples should invast the time that is needed to learn about the different ways of making sure your soul mate and partner is well satisfy in your bed..which should be a very enjoyable and pleasurable time.of .love making...
After reading this passage, I feel lucky now knowing that what my boyfriend and I have is real. I have been with him for a while and we are very open with eachother sexually. Nothing, gets held back because if we cannot pleasure eachother then another factor will arise...cheating! I am also shocked that nowadays people are still not communicating with their partners on a sexual level. Ladies and Men, keep it extremely real with your partner, both of you will benefit from it, trust me!
Many have been socialize to view sex as sinful, first, through our upbrining and secondly, through religion. So, sexually expression, verbally and definitely physically has been demonized resulting in a host of sexual dysfunctions and pathologies.
I think it is vital for any relationship to be open and honest with your partner. My girlfriend and I are extremly upfront with one another especially in terms of sexually expressing ourselves. However, it wasnt always this way, it was something that took a great deal of time and trust. I am happy that we didnt just jump into things right away. And over the course of that time we were able to develop a relationship that we both now feel completely comfortable in and are never hesitant to voice eachothers feelings. Furthermore, take the time to get to know your partners views and honor and respect eacothers feelings.Ultimately, try to come to a mutual union and understanding where both of you can feel comfortable and never hold things back from one another.
I've been with my boyfriend for four years. It took us awhile to get so comfortable with trying different techniques that please us in different ways but that type of communication is so important. Once you can get to that level it establishes almost a new level in your relationship. If theres something we may not be able to talk about face to face (regarding technique/ positions/ advice/ strategies) once we get to that heat of the moment time, it's like we can read eachothers minds. Together we're equally willing open to satisfy eachother.